One in Three Americans Want Something Beyond Monogamy — Certified Sexologist James Buckley Offers Expert Coaching to Fill the Gap

New York, New York

As cultural attitudes shift and research reveals the breadth of interest in alternative relationship structures, Buckley's specialized practice has become a critical resource for a rapidly expanding community.

Recent data paints a striking picture of changing relationship norms. YouGov polling shows that roughly one-third of Americans describe their ideal relationship as something other than complete monogamy, while peer-reviewed research confirms that more than one in five have already engaged in consensual non-monogamy. Match's 2024 Singles in America study adds further dimension, reporting that only 49 percent of singles now identify traditional monogamy as their preferred relationship style and that 31 percent have personally explored consensual non-monogamy.

The cultural infrastructure supporting these choices, however, has lagged far behind the demand. Many therapists and coaches lack specific training in the dynamics unique to non-monogamous relationships, leaving clients to navigate complex emotional terrain without qualified guidance. Buckley recognized this disconnect early and built Non-Monogamy Co to address it directly.

"When someone opens up their relationship or enters a polyamorous dynamic for the first time, they encounter emotional experiences that most traditional relationship advice simply doesn't address," said Buckley. "Jealousy management, scheduling logistics, metamour relationships, hierarchy negotiations — these are real challenges that require specialized understanding."

Buckley's credentials set his practice apart in a field where expertise remains scarce. Trained through the Somatica Institute, widely recognized as one of the leading programs in somatic sexology and relationship coaching, he brings a methodology rooted in experiential learning and embodied emotional intelligence. This approach allows him to work with clients not just intellectually but through felt experience, helping them develop practical skills for communication, boundary-setting, and emotional regulation.

The entirely online format of Non-Monogamy Co has proven essential to reaching clients who might otherwise have no access to specialized support. The practice has worked with people across multiple countries, reflecting a global phenomenon. The internet has connected communities that were once isolated, and open relationship styles are gaining visibility and acceptance worldwide.

The explosive growth of platforms catering to non-monogamous people further illustrates the scale of interest. Feeld, a dating app designed for open-minded individuals and couples, grew its membership by 368 percent between 2021 and 2025. That kind of growth signals not a passing fad but a fundamental evolution in how people think about love, commitment, and partnership.

Non-Monogamy Co works with a diverse clientele. Some clients are longtime polyamorous practitioners seeking to deepen their existing relationships. Others are couples contemplating opening their relationship for the first time and wanting to build a strong foundation before taking that step. Still others are individuals processing the emotional aftermath of a non-monogamous experience that did not go as planned.

In each case, Buckley's approach centers on nonjudgmental curiosity and practical skill-building. Rather than prescribing a single model of non-monogamy, the coaching helps clients define their own values, articulate their needs, and develop the communication tools necessary to build relationships that align with their authentic desires.

As demand for ethical non-monogamy support continues to accelerate, Non-Monogamy Co stands as a pioneering practice offering the depth of expertise that this evolving landscape requires.

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